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June 18th, 2007
Looking Up
Good morning,
I hope you are all enjoying summer weather wherever you are. It has been cloudy and overcast here in Oregon. As soon as we get some sunshine, I'm grabbing the kids and heading off to the beach!
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Quote of the Week:
"You shall know the truth, and the truth shall make you mad." -
"Character is doing the right thing when nobody's looking. There are too many people
who think that the only thing that's right is to get by, and the only thing that's
wrong is to get caught." -
"We cannot change anything until we accept it." -
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Feature Article of the Week:
Should You Forgive Infidelity?
If you are asking yourself that question, then somewhere within you there must be a desire to forgive the other person. After all, if you knew 100% for sure without doubts that you definitely should NOT forgive, then you would not be entertaining the question, right? You would have already said your goodbyes and would be moving on with your new life and licking your wounds. You may or may not have trust issues in your future relationships depending on how you processed the infidelity in your past. But what if you are struggling with the question? What then?
The first thing you need to look at above and beyond all else is the cheater's character.
Do they have a history of cheating on their partners? Do they have a history of
cheating on you? Are they too self-
Let's assume for whatever reason you have decided that yes your partner has the ability
to be faithful and this was a one-
The next thing to evaluate is what is at stake. What kind of a life have you built together and what does it mean to you? Do you have children together? A long marriage? A business and material wealth? What if you do not think you can trust them and yet you will lose everything that you do love by leaving them? That is something that only you can answer. Is the money, the marriage, or the children worth a lifetime of being cheated on? You decide. Maybe it is a marriage of convenience anyway and you really do not care where they sleep. Then it is going to be much easier to forgive them than if they are your one true love and your emotional health is at risk by having your heart shattered.
As you know, there are plenty of reasons to choose not to forgive and forget. But
what if you have created a long beautiful life together and your partner is a wonderful
parent to your children? What if you feel just as much to blame for the infidelity
because you had pushed them away for too long? What if they had made an honest effort
to work things out with you but you just kept pushing them away? What then? Just
because you want to forgive them does not mean that you can forgive them. How do
you forgive and forget? The bible may tell us to turn the other cheek, but how?
How do you do it? There is a big difference between saying, "I forgive you" on
a generic spiritual level and saying, "I forgive you" on a personal heart-
I believe that the most important barometer of how easy or hard it is to forgive is how they behave after the event. Do they browbeat you with comments like, "Look I said I'm sorry. Get over it already." Or are they beating themselves up for having caused you this pain? Are they offering to jump through hoops to prove to you that they have learned a horrible lesson and will make damn sure it never happens again? The intensity of their apology and their willingness to allow you to feel the pain of it will have a direct impact on your ability to heal from the infidelity and on their ability to rebuild trust in your eyes. If they demand that you simply trust them on their word and they have done nothing to show you that they are taking full responsibility for the broken trust, then leave them. It's not your fault that they broke the trust even if you were not emotionally available to them, the breach of trust was done on their part. You cannot force yourself to trust someone again. Just like when our teenagers lie to us and have to earn back our trust, it is no different between adults whether the trust was broken in a marriage or a business relationship. It is their job to recreate that. They need to find their own way back.
Copyright 2004, Skye Thomas, Tomorrow's Edge
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