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How can I know if

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What if I’m crazy?

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August 9th, 2010

Looking Up

Good morning,

We spent the last week in Denver visiting relatives.  We had a lovely time and reconnected with family members.  It was the first time we had taken a family vacation in about four years.  It was definitely a much-needed break and now I am really happy to be back home and back to work.

By the way, the drive from San Diego to Denver is really quite beautiful.  I highly recommend it!

take care,

Skye Thomas

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This Week's News of Interest:

August 2010 Horoscopes

All versions of the August forecasts have been sent out to the subscribers and free versions have been blogged and posted to the website.  Here are the links for those of you who like to read the forecasts online...

Aries August 2010 Monthly Horoscope

Taurus August 2010 Monthly Horoscope

Gemini August 2010 Monthly Horoscope

Cancer August 2010 Monthly Horoscope

Leo August 2010 Monthly Horoscope

Virgo August 2010 Monthly Horoscope

Libra August 2010 Monthly Horoscope

Scorpio August 2010 Monthly Horoscope

Sagittarius August 2010 Monthly Horoscope

Capricorn August 2010 Monthly Horoscope

Aquarius August 2010 Monthly Horoscope

Pisces August 2010 Monthly Horoscope

2011 Overviews

We posted the 12 free full-length 2011 Overviews to the website last month.  Check them out when you get a chance.  2011 will be a lot less chaotic and less challenging than what we have seen over the past two years.  Here are the links...

Aries 2011 Overview

Taurus 2011 Overview

Gemini 2011 Overview

Cancer 2011 Overview

Leo 2011 Overview

Virgo 2011 Overview

Libra 2011 Overview

Scorpio 2011 Overview

Sagittarius 2011 Overview

Capricorn 2011 Overview

Aquarius 2011 Overview

Pisces 2011 Overview

Quote of the Week:

All married couples should learn the art of battle as they should learn the art of making love. Good battle is objective and honest--never vicious or cruel. Good battle is healthy and constructive, and brings to a marriage the principle of equal partnership. - Ann Landers

You can discover more about a person in an hour of play than in a year of conversation. - Plato

Nothing has a stronger influence psychologically on their environment and especially on their children than the unlived life of the parent. - Carl Jung

Feature Article of the Week:

"The Family" as an Entity

As a mother, I feel that it is my duty to look out for the needs of each individual in the family.  I believe that no one person - child nor adult - is more important than any other.  Every single member of the family is unique and special and their needs are unique and special.  Even if all kids live under the same house rules, they are taught and enforced differently depending on each one's learning curve and personality type.  In addition, the adults in the house are to be equal regardless of who raises the kids and who brings home the money.  Everyone's emotional health, spiritual health, and physical health are equally important.  There is a hidden family member that sometimes gets forgotten when we are juggling the needs of the individuals.  What about "The Family" as a unit?  How does it weigh into the equation?

First, let us look at the dynamics as they pertain to the individuals in the family.  The adults cannot make themselves the center of the universe.  Parents who are so caught up in their own careers, relationships, or just in their own heads all of the time, often have lonely depressed children who doubt their parents' love and devotion.  Studies have already shown a very high percentage of teenagers experimenting with drugs and alcohol are from homes where the parents are too self-absorbed to notice or to pay attention to what is happening with their own children.  

On the other hand, it is very easy as parents to sacrifice ourselves for the greater good of the family.  I suspect that this dynamic plays into the resentments and underlying tensions found in most households.  The adults often give up their dream jobs, drop out of college, or stop having a social life outside of the family because at some point along the way it seemed like the answer to some problem.  For whatever reason, there is no time, energy, or money left over for the adults when all is said and done.  They seldom get to pick up those pieces of themselves that they sacrificed along the way.  The parents should not become martyrs to their children or "The Family."  It is up to the parents to find a healthy balance between these two extremes.

We all know people who say that the children should always come first - at any cost.  I disagree.  Children who are raised to be the center of the universe grow up to be adults who believe that they have a rightful place as the center of everyone else's universe too.  It is unfair to teach children that they are more important then everyone else.  They become self-esteem monsters and bullies.  The real world will teach them a very difficult lesson.  People will not like them no matter how special Mommy and Daddy think they are.  It is better to teach children that everyone is equal in regards to needs, hopes and dreams, responsibilities, and other dynamics of getting along in the world.  Mommy's need for peace and quiet once in a while is every bit as important as little Billy's need to jump and run and play.  The key again is for the parents to find a balance between the opposing needs.

The hidden entity is "The Family" as a unit.  I have watched families that focused on each individual's needs, schedules, etc to the point that there really was not a family left when all was said and done.  The parents are busy scheduling their own lives while the teenagers are living independent lives dropping by the house to eat and sleep, but otherwise completely disconnected from the family and the little ones are so busy with soccer leagues and music lessons and play dates with their friends that they have no real sense of what family is about.  Everyone is happy, busy, flourishing individuals, but "The Family" as a unit has almost completely disappeared.

We have also seen families that went the opposite direction and nobody got their personal needs met because everyone had to constantly sacrifice for the greater good of "The Family."  Your career is decided at birth as well as whom you will marry because you must uphold the family name or the family traditions.  Those people come to hate what family represents and want to bust out of the prison it has become.  Once again, the answer lies in the parents needing to find a balance between "The Family" and the individuals.

As a mother, it is my job to juggle the needs and dreams of every single member of our household.  I always try to remember that secret entity "family" and what is it that "The Family" needs and dreams of.  I teach my kids to not only look at how their needs impact each other, but also how it affects "The Family's" needs.  For example, if I let my teenagers spend the extra money after the bills are paid each month, then how will the family get to go to Disneyland this summer?  They are an active part in helping to determine "The Family's" needs and goals as well as their own.  I am very much a part of who gets included.  "Wait a minute guys, did you forget that I need a new monitor for my computer before you get another game for your Xbox?"

In so doing, they come to understand that they are important, but not more important then me and I am not less important then they are.  The two-year-old's needs are just as important as the teenagers' needs.  Everyone makes sacrifices at times, but nobody is forced to sacrifice all of the time.  The kids understand that no one person is more important then any other.  They also understand that "The Family" as a whole is just as important as each individual member within it.  We have an amazingly strong family bond as well as each of us having very strong sense of personal worth.  I feel that this may be the most important thing I do, balancing the needs of everyone including "The Family" as a whole.

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Copyright 2004, 2010, Skye Thomas, Tomorrow's Edge

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