Are the voices in my

head guardian angels

or spirit guides?

How do I know if I

can trust them?

Do I have to do what

they tell me to do?

How can I know if

they are good or evil?

What if I’m crazy?

Voices

Divinity or Insanity?

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and more

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Who is naturally loyal

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Why Do I Keep Falling

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May 11th, 2009

Looking Up

Good morning,

I thought this was a cool story.

http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/21134540/vp/30597963#30597963

take care,

Skye Thomas

Tomorrow's Edge

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Long Live the American Dream!

This Week's News of Interest:

6-Month and 12-Month Forecasts

We used to offer 6-month forecasts and then stopped.  This was because they took a long time to write and people in line waiting for their turn, would complain that they had to wait so long for their shorter and quicker reports.

Skye has created a template that goes so far into the future, that this is no longer a problem.  The new 6-month and 12-month personalized horoscopes will still take longer than 1-month and 3-month forecasts, but not so much longer that they create a backlog of orders.

2010 Horoscopes

Since Skye has created a forecasting template that goes all the way out to the end of 2010, we can now offer personalized 2010 horoscopes.  They cost the same as a normal 12-month forecast.  However, they include bonus material that is not included in the other forecasts.

As of yet, there are no links pointing to the web page describing this new special offer.  The new 2010 Personalized Horoscopes will not be available to the general public until May 24th (a nice new moon).  As part of the big roll out, the 2010 forecasts will be on sale until May 31st.  

So, why are we telling you this now?  Because we want to allow our loyal readers extra access to the sale price.  Everyone else will get the sale price for 1-week, but you will get it for 3-weeks, starting today.  You get a 2-week head start!

Quote of the Week:

"Many a man has finally succeeded only because he has failed after repeated efforts. If he had never met defeat he would never have known any great victory." - Orison Swett Marden

"Failure is unimportant.  It takes courage to make a fool of yourself." - Charlie Chaplin

"The starting point of all achievement is desire. Keep this constantly in mind. Weak desires bring weak results, just as a small amount of fire makes a small amount of heat." - Napoleon Hill

Feature Article of the Week:

Practice, Practice, Practice

It may sound silly but the key to self-confidence and building more self-esteem is through practice.  Practice what it is you want to feel more confident about and eventually, the confidence will show itself.  That makes sense if we are talking about a skill like playing the piano.  With enough practice, you naturally begin to get good at it and then you feel more confident.  But what about tougher things like public speaking or meeting new people?  How do you practice something that you are terrified to do in the first place?

If you have extreme self-esteem issues then you might want to seek professional help, but if you have determined that is not necessary, I would suggest that you start out by finding something that you genuinely love to do.  Other than maybe reading books or doing crossword puzzles over coffee, most hobbies are a good place to start.  Do you love to paint?  Do you love to play a musical instrument?  Do you love athletics?  Find something that you love to do or that you think you would love to do.  It is not important what it is other than that it would bring you into contact with people on a tiny level.  Unless you are living in a cave somewhere, somebody is going to see your artwork, hear your music, or see you running around practicing your sport.  You do not have to pick a big team-oriented thing, just something that fascinates you and will be noticeable.  Then do it.  Learn to draw, take music lessons, start playing basketball in your own driveway, whatever... just start doing something that you can really enjoy.

Keep doing it until you get really good at it.  It does not have to necessarily become your new career, but that would be fun for you if it does.  Practice often and with complete joy.  Lose yourself in it.  That is part of overcoming self-confidence issues is forgetting to think about yourself.  Swim laps at the pool until you forget to care how you look.  Get lost in something other than analyzing yourself.  Fall in love with some hobby that takes your mind away from what others might think of you.  Just keep practicing something you love until you get really good at it.  It is your hobby and your love, so do not make any judgments over whether or not it is stupid to like doing whatever it is that you like doing.  Just get on with it.  

When you are in the moment -- writing music or designing websites or whatever it is you have chosen, take a moment to reflect on how far you have come.  At some point, you are going to realize that you are not too bad.  At another point, you will even think, "Hey, I'm pretty good at this."  Someday, you will look up and notice that you are an expert or at the very least awesome at what you have chosen to do.  Take that growing self-confidence that is connected to your hobby and begin channeling it into other areas.  Depending on how much of a self-esteem problem you started out with it could be a matter of months or years before you are able to really see yourself in a new light.  It is one thing to say that everyone has their unique and special talent.  It is quite another to find and embrace your own.  

Your talent will not be something you hate doing.  Sure, I am really quite good at scrubbing the bathroom.  You can conduct a white glove inspection when I am done, but that is not my special talent.  That is not my special gift to the world.  And it sure as heck never built an ounce of self-confidence for me.  No, you have to really truly deeply love what it is you are doing or the talent won't show itself.  You have to forget to think and lose all track of time while zoning out in the flow of creating, building, stretching, and growing with the hobby.  Get to the point that when you look up and notice what you have done, that you are impressed with yourself.  Practice until you get to that point where you forget to judge yourself.  You could very well end up making it into your career if there is a market for it.  If there isn't... no harm done.  You have got to build a can-do attitude around your ability to do something well.

Once you have learned something that well, you can begin stretching beyond your comfort zone and trying other things like public speaking.  Okay so that might not happen right away, but once you have really mastered something, then you can always remind yourself that you are capable of success and you are capable of learning something new.  Once you know that you can practice and learn new things, then the fear of new things is not nearly so immobilizing.  You can step beyond your fears knowing that with enough practice you can master almost anything you set your mind to.  At that point, you will not actually have a self-esteem problem anymore.    

The point is that by playing around with something you love until you are very good at it, you will gain self-esteem and that is going to make it possible for you to hold your head high and to bravely step into other more frightening areas of life.  Start out by practicing at something you love until you are good at it, and then move on to the other things that do not sound like much fun at all.  You will know deep down that there is nothing to be afraid of.  It all comes down to whether or not you believe that you are capable of learning something new.  That is all.  Self-confident people reassure themselves when walking into unknown territory by saying, "Well, I'll just have to wing it until I learn how to do it right.  I'm sure I'll figure it out soon enough."  That comes from experiencing the positive effects of having practiced and learned something new.  So go learn something new -- start with something fun.

Need someone to talk to about quieting your fears?

Skye Thomas is available for life coaching.

Copyright 2004, Skye Thomas, Tomorrow's Edge

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Skye Thomas is the CEO of Tomorrow’s Edge, an Internet leader in inspiring leaps of faith.  She became a writer in 1999 after twenty years of studying personal growth, motivation, soulmates, self-esteem, parenting, spirituality, metaphysics, family dynamics, dating, and astrology.  Her books, articles, and astrological forecasts have inspired people of all ages and faiths to recommit themselves to the pursuit of happiness.  To read more of her articles, previews of her books, and her astrology forecasts, go to www.TomorrowsEdge.net.  To read more about Skye and to sign up to receive one or more of her free newsletters, go to www.SkyeThomas.com.  

 

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